Big Picture Insights: Relationship, it's Sacred Work!

WHAT ARE YOU REALLY DOING IN RELATIONSHIPS? ARE YOU OR WERE YOU CONVINCED THAT IT WAS “JUST WHAT IS DONE”? WAS IT A DREAM TO BE HAD? DID YOUR UPBRINGING CONVINCE YOU THAT THIS IS HOW YOU ARE TO HAVE VALUE IN THE WORLD?

MARRIAGE/COMMITMENT AT ANY LEVEL IS, FOR MOST PEOPLE ON THE PLANET, A SACRED CONTRACT. BUT WHY?

DID YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE ENTERING INTO A KARMATIC AGREEMENT EVERY TIME YOU ENGAGE WITH THE OTHER? IT’S LIKE A DIVINE CHEMICAL REACTION; EVEN IF IT SEEMS RANDOM, BUT ESPECIALLY WHEN IT’S ROMANTIC LOVE. COULD THIS BE WHY YOU FALL SO HARD FOR SOMEONE? WHY YOUR BODY LIGHTS UP AT JUST THE THOUGHT OF BEING AROUND YOUR NEW LOVE. COULD IT BE WHY THE ATTRACTION TO THEM SEEMS BIGGER THAN YOU?

MOST PEOPLE ENTER INTO COMMITMENT WITHOUT THE PSYCHO-SPIRITUAL UNDERPINNINGS. EVEN IF IT’S A RELIGIOUS UNION, ON THE HUMAN LEVEL WE DON’T REALIZE WHAT WE’RE GETTING OURSELVES INTO. WHAT I HAVE PERSONALLY DISCOVERED IS THAT COMMITMENT IS A SACRED CONTRACT THAT INITIATES KARMATIC HEALING. MOST OF US ARE ON A SOUL’S JOURNEY TOGETHER, BUT WE’RE DOING IT UNCONSCIOUSLY. NOW IT CAN BE CONSCIOUS! WHAT YOU MAY ALSO NOT KNOW IS THAT YOU ARE HERE ON PURPOSE. (FOR MORE ON THAT: READ HERE). YOU, YOUR BECOMING, IS YOUR PURPOSE AND RELATIONSHIP, NO MATTER HOW SHORT, IS A PROCESS OF COMPLETING THAT PURPOSE AS IT BRINGS YOU HOME TO YOURSELF EVERY TIME. THIS IS WHY RELATIONSHIP IS A PSYCHO-SPIRITUAL MATTER. FOR THE MOST PART, WE ARE HERE ON SPIRITUAL BUSINESS WE HAVE MANY PATTERNS FROM OTHER INCARNATIONS THAT WE ARE TRYING TO RESOLVE. AS WE CLEAR OUR ENERGETIC HISTORY WE HELP CLEAR THE COLLECTIVE AS WELL.

SO, WHATEVER IS NOT HEALED FROM YOUR PAST/S WILL BE CATALYZED AND TRIGGERED FOR MIND/BODY/SPIRITUAL RELEASE. OFTEN, THE SOURCE OF THE TRIGGER SEEMS TO COME FROM YOUR PARTNER. REALLY THOUGH, IT IS USUALLY EITHER TRANSFERENCE OR PROJECTION . MORE OFTEN THAN NOT, WE SEE THE OTHER AS WE ARE, WE WERE, OTHERS WERE, AND/OR VIA OUR PROGRAMMING. SO, WE NEED OUR RELATIONSHIPS TO MIRROR WHAT IS BLINDED BY OUR PAST, MISCONCEPTIONS, JUDGMENTS AND UNSETTLED ISSUES. THIS IS WHERE THE SAYING, “WE MARRY OUR MOTHER/FATHER” COMES FROM. HEALING HAS A LIFE CYCLE AND IT’S DEFINITELY CYCLICAL. SO, WHATEVER HAPPENS GROWING UP, (AND IN OTHER INCARNATIONS), THAT’S NOT BEEN ALLOWED TO COMPLETE WILL BE RE-ADDRESSED IN NEW RELATIONSHIPS THAT ECHO OTHERS. BY THE WAY, IF YOU WANT TO INTENSIFY THIS MIRRORING PROCESS AND FEEDBACK MECHANISM OF SELF-REALIZATION THEN BY ALL MEANS BRING CHILDREN INTO YOUR LIFE.

THAT’S WHY IT’S SO SIGNIFICANT TO MARRY YOURSELF FIRST; IF POSSIBLE. IF YOU’RE IN A VIABLE RELATIONSHIP ALREADY, INTEND ITS PURPOSE TO BE FOR GROWTH AND INTEGRATION FOR EVERYONE INVOLVED. LEAD THE WAY AND COMMIT TO HEALING YOUR TRAUMA AND IMBALANCES BECAUSE YOU CAN ONLY EFFECT CHANGE VIA YOUR OWN CHANGE. IT’S IMPORTANT TO BECOME WHOLE INDEPENDENTLY AND INTERDEPENDENTLY FROM THE OTHER PERSON IN A SUPPORTIVE WAY. UNDERSTAND THAT IT’S A GREAT WAY TO LIKELY AVOID OR UNDO CO-DEPENDENCE, RELATIONAL DEPRESSION, AND EMOTIONAL ENTANGLEMENT ETC. AS YOU FOCUS ON FILLING YOUR OWN VOIDS, LEARNING NON-VIOLENT/TRANSPARENT COMMUNICATION, TREATING YOURSELF WELL INSIDE YOURSELF THEREBY NURTURING A HEALTHY INNER-RELATIONSHIP. IT HELPS TO ALSO FOLLOWING YOUR AUTHENTIC IMPULSES NO MATTER THE SOCIAL-PRESSURES. IF CHALLENGED BY SOMETHING, SAY, “WHATEVER IN ME HELPED CREATE THIS OR WILL CREATE THIS, I HEAL IT NOW.” THIS WAY, YOU WILL BEGIN TO OWN YOUR LIFE, WHAT YOU’RE CREATING AND COME TO KNOW YOUR SOUL. REALLY THOUGH, CHOOSE WHICH MYTHOS IS RIGHT FOR YOU BECAUSE IT IS SACRED WORK AND A PSYCHO-SPIRITUAL PROCESS WHATEVER METHODS YOU ENGAGE IN. DO THEN, REQUIRE THIS OF ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT MATTERS TO YOU. WATCH YOUR PARTNER TRULY BE A PARTNER IN LIFE AND A SOURCE OF ADVENTURE, PERSONAL-GROWTH AND INSPIRATION. IN THIS WAY, YOU AND YOUR PARTNER STEP INTO YOUR SOUL-SELVES AND CONSCIOUS CO-CREATION. FROM THIS PLACE, YOU CANNOT BUT LOVINGLY TAKE OVER YOUR WORLD TOGETHER!

❤ AMY

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